but you and I are savages

So in my down time I have been doing some wedding planning. I know most people think it's silly cause we have over a year until we get married but planning is sooooo time consuming and I'm pretty much doing it all on my own. I want to make sure I don't miss anything or forget to do something so yes, I am planning early. Obviously everyone knows we have booked a place already since our date is a pretty popular one. We are having our engagement party on May 9th at our new house and its just going to be like a big BBQ with our families and close friends. Things are coming together rather smoothly so far. I have firmly decided on who I want to be my bridesmaids and I couldn't be happier with my decision. I've been worried cause I didn't want certain friends to get offended if I didn't pick them over someone else but if that's the case then they aren't my real friends. I don't really know the limit of how many bridesmaids/groomsmen you can have but I've picked five including my Maid of Honor.
Nicole is going to be my maid of honor. Her and I have become really good friends since Steve and I have been together. She was there the night that Steve proposed to me and she is just great. I hate that she lives in Brooklyn but I definitely don't mind visiting her to do wedding plans. Oh and Steve was her Maid of Honor at her wedding haha.
My Bridesmaids are Paige- she has always been there for me as long as I've known her, from getting me a job with her at Delilah's(haha) to helping me out with Aiden and just being a great friend, she's definitely a great choice. My brother's fiance Kim is another bridesmaid and I picked her for obvious reasons. We're going to be family one day and she's already like a sister to me. Then there is my cousin Lauren, again for obvious reasons, she's family and I love her and lastly Lila!... she's been my cousin Dan's girlfriend for FOREVER and she's just like family too. All in all I think I made the best choices.
Steve is having a hard time choosing his groomsmen which is fine, he has a lot of BEST friends so its going to be a tough decision for him and there really isnt a hurry. I just get super excited about stuff like this and I always plan wayyyy far in advance. I've even worked on the guest list and it's pretty much set, give or take a few people. ahhhh I'm crazy, I know.

Well Paige has been watching Aiden this week since my mom and grandmother are away and Aiden has been being really good for her(unless she's just telling me that to be nice haha) but it makes me really happy that he's good with her and he's even been sharing with Cash. It had me worried that I was going to have a spoiled brat boy. The only thing he DOES NOT LIKE is when I hold another baby. He'll get over it though.
Other than all of this nothing else has been going on. Obviously there's only a few more days until Spring is officially here and I can not wait. Warm weather means better moods and better days.Our friends Mike and Jamie are going to be in Jersey for like a week at the end of the month and we're going to visit with them and their daughter Paisley for a few days. That should be lots of fun too.I'm glad Aiden has more little friends to play with but him and Cash are like besties.They learn soooo much from each other. Well I've got an hour left of work and then home to see my little lovebug.He is so crazy and I love him so so so so so so much.